bloody wedding bells

talked to my dad tonight.

apparently he got married yesterday.

that makes the second parent to not tell me about their wedding plans. that would make it 100% of my parents.

now, to be fair, i found out about my mother's wedding before it happened. but, that was only a week before it happened and only because i happened to say 'so, when do you think you and mark might get married' and she said 'oh, we're getting married next weekend' (well, she said good friday, but you get the picture).

my dad, well, i had no idea they were even thinking about it.

i just called tonight to firm up our brunch plans for tomorrow and he said 'i have some news, we got married yesterday'. just like that. ta da!

*sigh*

so, i made john promise that if we ever have kids and at some point decide to get married we will at the very least tell them we're getting married, and maybe even invite them too...